Virgo women have lists of things to do, and sometimes you could wind up being one more
item on her list. Becoming "Priority #10-D" is something to avoid at all costs! Once she
writes you into her Filofax as "Sex with James, Thursday @ 9:00 PM" you know you`ve hit
bottom, and it is time to do something drastic--and delightful!.
How To Handle Her
Your goal is to allow her to take time to relax and gently pull her away from her everyday
cares. She hates being lazy, so accomplishing this isn`t going to be as easy. Like the male
Virgo, the female Virgo loathes making love in a hovel, so if this describes your place,
you`d better spiff it up. Nothing turns off a Virgo faster than dirt or mess. She isn`t
impressed with luxury, so don`t worry about having things "good enough" for her--crisp, just
laundered cotton sheets and some soft pillows are fine. But if you don`t get organized,
before you know it, she`ll be out of bed and cleaning up the place--the last thing you want
her to be doing in her Victoria`s Secret teddy! As good as it sounds, to have some lovely
geisha cleaning up your pigsty, think about it. If she`s stacking dishes in the dishwasher,
she isn`t making love to you, so get your priorities straight, buddy. Besides, god knows
where she`ll "neaten up" your collection of half-dirty basketball shorts TO. So take away
the clamor of disorder that distracts her and when she`s with you, you will be all that exists
in her world.
Things To Do, Gifts To Buy
She adores high fashion and well-made clothing. As the saying goes, "God in the details,"
and details are this perfectionist`s forte. Most Virgo women enjoy staying up-to-date on the
latest couture trends (she is ruled by Mercury, so she is oriented toward staying current).
Yet their appearance will likely be elegant and understated rather than flashy, often
choosing neutrals over bright colors. She likes to dress up, so think of a nice restaurant
where she can wear some of her new things. Tattered jeans and polo shirts are not her
style.
Buy her an article of clothing or piece jewelry that is high fashion but enduring, top quality,
like a Tiffany or Cartier watch that she can treasure for years. (She`s madly punctual, so
what better gift?). Her sign rules jade, the stone of fidelity, so a ring or pendant made of
that stone is especially meaningful. You could alternatively give her a beauty service, like a
year of manicures and pedicures (Virgo likes her nails fastidiously groomed) or six months
of a personal trainer (fitness is a big thing with her) and still make a big hit with her.
In love, she is highly ethical and idealistic, so don`t be surprised if your Virgo comes to you
with little sexual experience. She`s just very discriminating about who she will give her
heart and body to. Don`t think that means she lacks passion. Quite the contrary! Virgos are
just better at controlling their intense, smoldering feelings, but once released, watch out!
When she finds a man she is willing to devote her life to, she can be a tiger in bed. Her
secret strength is that she communicates her needs well and will also listen closely to, and
act on, what her lover needs.
Since Virgo prizes cleanliness so much, seduce her with a bubble bath for two. Set dozens
of softly-scented votive candles around the bathroom and be sure to have some thick,
luxurious towels nearby. A bottle of champagne would be good to have on hand, as would
a bowl of finger fruits--grapes, strawberries, raspberries--to feed her one by one. After your
bath, give her a full body massage. Later, when you make love, be sure to talk to her
during sex because nothing as erotic to her as her vivid imagination. Describe places and
situations where you would like to make love to her down to the tiniest details. (When she
begins asking questions to keep you taking about a certain scenario, you`re on the right
track).
To thank him for all his home improvement, you might want to take him to dinner. When
choosing the restaurant, remember that a Virgo`s digestive system is delicate. Most Virgos
dislike overly rich food and try to eat balanced healthful meals. Many are vegetarians.
Another point to consider is that Virgo has a strong need to be highly organized. So when
seducing the Virgo man, be sure you have a neat bedroom and put unnecessary clutter out of
sight. (Seeing junk around will make him edgy.) In bed, the Virgo man is like the Gemini (both
are ruled by Mercury) in that his need to communicate is strong. Talking during lovemaking
will heighten his pleasure and add to his passion for you.
Things To Do, Gifts To Buy
Many Virgos are talented writers. Their reserved nature makes them express in writing what
they would have difficulty saying in person. Happily, you may be the lucky recipient of one of
the wonderful love letters only a Virgo could write. Drop hints that you would like to receive
something written especially for you. A perfect gift for him would be a beautiful fountain pen
or engraved stationary. He would also adore a P.D.A. or electronic organizer, a laptop
computer, new software, or even a dust buster for his car. You could also buy him a deluxe
tool kit (don`t forget those metric socket wrenches too) and let matters take their own course!